sometimes family sucks

plan and simple. there is someone on my father-in-laws side of the family coughhisbrothercough that is being a jackass right now. we might have to change the plans for his wake because of the crap he is pulling. i don't understand why he would want to do this when we are supposed to be remembering and paying respect to my father-in-laws life. i cant imagine that my father-in-law would be at peace knowing his brother and sons are fighting. its just really sad.

ps my hubby went and made an appointment to get a tattoo in honor of his father. he is going to take some of my father-in-laws ashes and have them put in the ink, so his father is forever with him.